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Posted on 11-20-11 9:36 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Open Letter to the Top Five Most Respected Men in Sajha,

Dai haru, Hajur lai Namaskar.

Who are the top five most respected men in sajha? If the top five most respected men in sajha can assure us that anytime a woman is put down in sajha that they will speak up, Rasika and I will stop what we have been doing in sajha immediately.

I'm not sure who the most respected men in sajha are. But sirs, if you will agree to speak up any time a woman is put down in sajha, Rasika and I are ready to be law abiding citizens again. We have no intention of causing more trouble than we need to. But we are not going to tolerate being kicked around by the men in sajha. 

Rasika Kanchhi and I would like to negotiate a peace process with the Five of you please.
 
We apologize for the trouble we might have caused. We just didn't see any other way around it. Sorry,
Mridula Devi and Rasika Kancchi
 
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Posted on 11-20-11 11:29 AM     [Snapshot: 178]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Aadarniya San Dai,
Hajur lai jhukera namaskar,

Thank you for your words and support Dai. It gives us sisters a lot of hope. Thank you for doing your valuable part in making us feel welcome to sajha. Your words make all the difference.

Yours Sincerely,
Rasika Kanchhi

 
Posted on 11-20-11 11:35 AM     [Snapshot: 191]     Reply [Subscribe]
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If I had begged for respect from the day I entered sajha, I would have already kicked rahulvai out of sajha. JS !
 
Posted on 11-20-11 11:46 AM     [Snapshot: 166]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I don't know how long I have been here (maybe somewhere between 6 months and a year), but the whole time I've been here I haven't seen anyone trying to supress a female voice. There were some people like Nas who talked foul about females; but Mridula or whatever kanchhi, if you ask me if I have seen somebody supressing a female, my answer will be a NO. If you were supressed back in time, this is not the time to take revenge by talking crap about males. That won't gain you any respect (Proof? go once more through those outrageous responses on your threads from males; and there are regular female users on sajha but they didn't even bother to write on your thread, let alone supporting your anti-male campaign. why? you know the answer.)

"But sirs, if you will agree to speak up any time a woman is put down in sajha, Rasika and I are ready to be law abiding citizens again." - 
everyone will support a user who says good/right things. but if you start talking trash like you've been doing recently, nomatter what gender you are, you'll get bad responses. and btw, there is no such thing called 5 most respected men in sajha. sajha is sajha of all and everyone is equal as san dai said. if you want to be treated well, learn to treat others in the same way. rasika kanchi becomes active all of a sudden after some 420 days and starts demeaning males, recruits mridula and starts "mahila morcha"; for what? respect? well, you got some good and "respectful" responses, didn't you?  like you said, nobody likes to get kicked around. so, stay in your limit and people will automatically start treating you well. 
 
Posted on 11-20-11 12:19 PM     [Snapshot: 272]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Jantarei,

While I agree with some of the things you said, the idea that everyone is equal is very silly and untrue. Equality is an ideal that has never been realized in any society, including in sajha. Hierarchy and culture are ever present in all societies always. No society of people are exception to this.

Albert Einstein:
"As far as the laws of mathematics refer to reality, they are not certain, as far as they are certain, they do not refer to reality." 

R.K



 
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neva seen such  itching-bees. i.e  drama-queen, attention seeker, nautanki bee itches


 
Posted on 11-20-11 12:53 PM     [Snapshot: 348]     Reply [Subscribe]
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i don't know and don't care about others but i believe in equality and treat everyone in the same way regardless of age/sex/social background, etc. but if you yourself believe that "...the idea that everyone is equal is very silly and untrue. Equality is an ideal that has never been realized in any society, including in sajha. Hierarchy and culture are ever present in all societies always. No society of people are exception to this. " what are you trying to show? that you can change things all of a sudden just like that? well, good luck with that lady. 
 
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IF YOU TWO ARE SO COURAGEOUS THEN DO YOU DARE TO POST YOUR REAL NAME AND PHOTOS IN SAJHA.

NATRA PURANO UKHAN CHHA NI--BAAG KO CHALA LAI, SHYAL LE GEET GAI. (YO CHAHI AAFAI BANAKO UKHAN BHAYO)

AANI ARKO KURA--KHAI YE DUI JANA LE KETA HARULAI DOMINATE GAREKO TA MAILE SAJHA DEKHINA, SIBHAYA PAGAL JHAI UNNECESSARY THREAD POST GARNU.

 
Posted on 11-20-11 12:57 PM     [Snapshot: 370]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Jantarei,

What is there to prove?

Men have their strengths that women don't have. Women have their strengths that men don't have.

It is true that there are certain strengths that they both share.

If nature had wanted men and women to be equal, it would have made us plants.

 
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 Internet ta ho ni bhanera jpt ta na bhanau na ho, Mridula ra Rasika ji. Why don't you find a job or do something productive? 
 
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Rasika Kancha,

I have been a silent spectator of your BS in sajha for quiet sometime now. In sajha, every poster with a specific idealism such as Maoism, Khaoism, Monarchy, Capitalists,Socialist or Fascist have been scruitnized with  views of many other posters because it is a forum of opinions. I have been noticing that like many other feminists you are too quick to defend your light ideals with the sheild of feminism as soon as some one does not agree to your point. Rather, in most cases, you shield yourself in your precious feminist shell before you get any comments from others.

As what San was saying " Women or men both are equally allowed to express their opinions about each other or stereotype each other according to their own experiences" feel free to express your opinion as you have experienced it and also let men express theirs as they have experienced.





 
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Posted on 11-20-11 1:20 PM     [Snapshot: 411]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Rasika and Mridula
 
Before replying to my post read it completely and address the issues that i am asking for. Just don't be an one liner saying "wah kya funda cha".
 
I just don't understand, why are you crying for so called support and for whom?
Is it for you, for whole women race or just nepalese women for whom? and what kind of support you are seeking here in sajha?
Can you be more specific?did any man phsyscially threaten you? abused you ? tried to take advantage of you? what? If they did, there action can't be justified and one behalf of those people i ask
an appolgy.Not all men are the same, there are always good and bad people exist in this world.
 
We men always have sympathy and respect toward women.If some men don't act in the way the most of others do then you can't do anything about it. there are like that way, and they can't be changed 
at all.but based on those few people marking the whole men race is WRONG and that's what you are doing over here.
 
 
From your post,it seems like that you are asking to agree with you completely without thinking about the other part of the story. I would be more than happy to support anyone who brings a legimate issue without creating too much controversy, but it seems that you came here sajha
just to fight with people and trying to let them down forgetting that there would be always good and bad PEOPLE(BOTH MEN AND WOMEN), and you can't generalize the whole race based on just few
observations.
 
I don't know what you had faced in your personal life but if you're really troubled with those kind of situation you are always welcome here to share it and then see whether nepalese men will
stand up. I can bet my last dollar most of our sajhatinas will. Bring some issue that is a legimate, ethical and doesn't based on just few generalization. 
 
So dear rasika and mridula, now tell us what your actual issue is? what you need here?
 
 
and be specfic this time and i promise everyone will support you, we don't have to be a respectful man to support a valid cause.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
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San dai
 
Whatever you said, agreed with you on each word but do you really think these two gals/boys are talking about something that makes a point, for me it seems that all they want is to create a controversy.
 
No one will try to supress her voice if she stop commenting and acting like an idiot.

 
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There is a simple solution this nonsense I.e. stop feeding troll. Trust me, once you stopped giving attention to their crap, it will cease itself.
 
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Peace treaty???? Where is da violence??? Where r da two sides???? Who r they???Whats the cause???? What kind of treaty??? Please enlighten. And I m not in anywhere near the respected guys from ur standard.
 
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na ta top 5 respected men in sajha hunu pareko ca..na kasaile naree mathee durachar garne bhandaima kehi hune wala ca..don't give a damn...kta sathiharu..just avoid those craps dude..khurukka afno kaam..padai tira dhyan deeye kaso hola..instead of replying and wasting time like those
 
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I read all those posts, but yet to figure out the whole idea behind the main stricking topic.


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Posted on 11-20-11 10:57 PM     [Snapshot: 934]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I told you girls i am top man of sajha. lets have peace process tomorrow night. your bed room or mine we will decide lol
 
Posted on 11-20-11 11:39 PM     [Snapshot: 987]     Reply [Subscribe]
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World is always a stage
and so you people are actors and participants in this amazing forum specifically for Nepalese people who have been globally spread. Please do give your individual opinions and share your experience, take helps from each other, and can kill time, shed your high adrenaline and form bonds. That's why this forum was built for. Be as the individual as you are or as you imagined you are, this is virtual stage as well, no top 5 or top 10 sajhahites are there. So don't over burden yrself, khulla manch hoh yo!
 



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