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 How do I abandon her?
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Posted on 12-13-14 12:02 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Hello.

So, it’s been almost two years we started dating. I first met her at the local restaurant ( she works there). Lately, I feel like she is utilizing me as ATM. She expects me to pay for almost all bills, few days ago she was requesting me to pay for her phone bills. Whenever I buy her stuffs she starts complimenting me saying sweet things like I will make a good husband. I am really confused, I don’t want to accountable for her personal life since I have my own issues I am a college student and I work part time. I just don’t want to be accountable for her anymore. Do you think dumping her would be nice idea?
 
Posted on 12-13-14 12:22 PM     [Snapshot: 42]     Reply [Subscribe]
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My two cents in your case. Dump her now and find someone independent.
 
Posted on 12-13-14 12:41 PM     [Snapshot: 78]     Reply [Subscribe]
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"accountable," I don't think it means what you think it means.


Accountable:
ac·count·a·ble
əˈkoun(t)əb(ə)l/
adjective
1.
(of a person, organization, or institution) required or expected to justify actions or decisions; responsible.
"government must be accountable to its citizens"
synonyms: responsible, liable, answerable; to blame
"the government was held accountable for the food shortage"

2.
explicable; understandable.
"the delayed introduction of characters' names is accountable, if we consider that names have a low priority"
 
Posted on 12-13-14 1:47 PM     [Snapshot: 162]     Reply [Subscribe]
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बढी जान्ने बाबु, अलि बढी जान्ने चाही भईनहालेको जाति हुन्थ्यो. भईहाल्यौ त्यो पनि ठिकै छ.
As you copied/pasted, one of this word's meanings is to 'be responsible'. I find it perfectly normal to use it since he doesn't want to be financially responsible for her expenses.

Anyway, for the OP.
It's gonna be your call. So from your writing, you are saying the relation being more a transactional? That you get to uckf her..and she gets it too..and she wants those gifts to get going?

If that's the case...dump her now.

If there is pretty clear kindling between you...may be she is serious about the word husband. Yes, you are also student. She should consider that...but still.

Close your eyes...and feel her inside you...where she resides..





























in your heart...
or in your dick..

Now, you do that math..
 
Posted on 12-13-14 2:23 PM     [Snapshot: 215]     Reply [Subscribe]
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"responsible" is a synonym for accountable, but it cannot replace the word "responsible" in every sense, unless a particular context is used.
You don't find a difference? Take this for an example: "It is not my responsibility to clean after you!" Now, try replacing the word responsibility with accountability. Makes sense?
Yes, the person can or cannot be accountable, but the context he used doesn't match the reference. When he says he cannot be accountable, he is saying if anything happens to her, he doesn't have to answer for it-He is not responsible for the actions she takes. The context is about giving her money, so the word "accountable" here doesn't fit. What he wants to say is he is not an open-account for her where she can draw any amount any time.
अब बुझ्यो? IDK नानी?
-Grammar Nazi.
 
Posted on 12-13-14 3:23 PM     [Snapshot: 260]     Reply [Subscribe]
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If you can tell us "You are a college student and I work part time." . Then Man-up!! Go and tell her the same. She herself works hard for the money in the restaurant, isn't she?

On thing though,  act like a  boy if you're boy, or act like a man if you are a man when you go out and date a woman.

If you're a boy, then acting like a man, you may have given her a wrong signal or impression that she may be thinking you want to settledown near soon.

Remember, woman always push little hard in a relationship  to see how her man reacts  to the challenges in real world. She knows very well that  only sweet words is not enough to survive in this world.

BTW, if you keep telling her I love you, I love you, while making love, then obivously she knows she has a  control over you.







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Posted on 12-13-14 6:21 PM     [Snapshot: 480]     Reply [Subscribe]
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It's easy bro, just tell her I love you but I am not in love with you..and don't forget to say, Its not you, it's me. This has been proven the most effective method to break up since last 5 decades :)
goodluck..
 
Posted on 12-13-14 7:33 PM     [Snapshot: 546]     Reply [Subscribe]
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With a part time job, I am wondering how you manage to pay for your college and other casual expenses as well as your girlfriend’s expenses. Since she also have a job I assume she might make as much as you do. What does she do with her money? Actually it’s not my business..
I guess both of you are living together for almost two years, and you are still in dilemma if she really loves you or not? If she truly loves you, she doesn’t want you to suffer. I read this kinda post many times and I still couldn’t understand this living-together relationship concept among unmarried Nepalese couples. When do they start living together? I mean, when they feel they’re genuinely in love and see each other as their prospective spouse, and then? Or after a couple of dates they decide to live together and seek love and feelings, just like in an arrange marriage? I think relationships are emotional investments. I take it as a big step!
 
Posted on 12-13-14 7:39 PM     [Snapshot: 577]     Reply [Subscribe]
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don't dump her unless u r satisfied sleeping with her. If she ain't sleeping with u but using u as a sugadaddy, then u should try to accomplish ur goal, sleep with her and leave her.
 
Posted on 12-13-14 10:09 PM     [Snapshot: 750]     Reply [Subscribe]
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WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.

2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.

3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was our office.

4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.

5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been spent.

6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.

7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.

8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.

9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.

10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.

11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was because I missed her so much.

12. My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.

13. My son, your mother, Asake rode the bicycle with me before I bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.

14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man?

15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.

17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.

18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother.

19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.

20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us.

21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.

22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.

23. My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday.
-PaulBond
 


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