I want to ask you guys abt what you would do if the person you love begins to change. I mean my guy doesn't talk like before. He talks so less that I feel very miserable. We are having a long distance relationship and there is so much of communication gap. He knows that I feel this way and still is not trying at all from his side. Do you think that there is any other way I can try solve this problem? You might say that I should forget about this guy and go separate ways but that is not possible in my case because we are engaged and getting married after few months. Can you suggest something please? Thanks you so much!

Thats the right way to try to forget him ( Just I am also trying to do that. she is getting married within next two days and still i am trying to be happy). But dont forget to remember when you are very near to him. You can not forget your past. These are normal in nowdays.

Ladki or train ke piche kabhi mat bhagna. euta gaya arko aaucha.

Ladki or train ke piche kabhi mat bhagna. euta gaya arko aaucha.

why don't you talk to him about what you feeling??it would be better to talk to him before taking advice from third person because they can't feel exactly what you are feeling.

You are right real maobadi. But there are some constraints which are unavoidable. Sometimes you have to step down from train lonely after a short but sweet tour and you can see there is another sitting near to her. So sad haina ta?

Dear parbatya,
If you believe me, i have been waiting my love since a year without squinting my eyes to any thing else. Patience and trust are two tools required for commitment. I would not write this thing in the sajha and ask for opinion, therefore, i responded that way.
take care

MissPriya..... As an experienced I would say this is because of the distance and hopefully will be solved by time. When u do not have someone physically infront of you, you speculate things based on the conversations you have. But realize one thing. A guy always runs after a gal in the begining and show care and love. Do not take it to be normal. He is overexpressing to impress or bridge the reationship. When things are stable he tends to naturally come back to normal as per his personality. Your boyfren might be into something that keeps him away from you or he might be a poor communicator.And you might have presumed to be avoided. Do not speculate. If you are sure that he is the man (since you are marrying) do not judge on this behavior. Stay together after getting married and things will be fine. Don't mind an invitation if you really liked this suggestion.hehe. Wishing a Happy Married Life. ...(Sincerely...Manning's fan...)

Misspiya,

to have any realtionship successful, you must have trust to each, not just love relatioship, but all the relationship will build on trust and if you love him/her and trust your loves one, then keep build the relationship otherwise it wont work whether it is long distance or short one. You have to have faith on it and if you lost your faith, it will not gonna long last.

Just my 2 words

kaleketo

Misspriya,

My suggestion is... forget him. You have a chance to leave him now. Once you get married you are stuck for life, you start compromising now you will be for ever. So better step out.

Seriously, long distance relationship disgusts me, I cannot stand it, no matter how much you trust eachother, anything could happen without wanting to, you know. You can't sit behind the desk, you have to see it, smell it and taste it as A.Cooper says! Hehe!

Lol. When I said it disgusts me, I am being individual, mind you. It def. depends on people but one of my closest relatives is in such relationship so it just doesn't convince me. I think in your case, Priya, your guy probably wanted to expereince a long distance relationship so when he found out, it wasn't worth it (lolol) He lost interest in it and thus started getting apart from you. Just my thought tho.

well why Guy behaves that way?
- Is there something else going in his life - i mean some other problem in job,family?
have you tried to analyze that.
Also,
It is very natural and all girl should expect this - whole movie kind of romance doesn't last long.But that doesn't mean that guy has stoped loving.Expectation of girl is always like when the guy is pursuing her.But in reality as someone above pointed once they get it they tend to fall back as they are secure.Kind relax once you run 10k marathon..hehehe

this also goes to girl in the scenario as girl would stop making her fit and beautiful .This is human nature.

one more thing is :if he wasn't serious , why did he get engaged with you?

If you are sure that he doesn't love you, then you should get out of relationship.Long distance relationship is very hard to handle and if there is no trust .get out! Good luck!:)
Don't make immature mistakes in love :D

misspriya....i had same problem like you but i try to forget him .. because he was bf .. so i accept that hurt he give to me i try to be strong enough for myself .. i let him go from my life. he was nice friend ,good son . but he was bad boyfriend ... he was good at frist few month later he change ...... but the thing is he is not your boyfriend he is going to be your husband soon i think you sud tell him how you felt when he try to ignore you ...explane him ever thing about your feeling and asked him too ... good luck

misspriya....i had same problem like you but i try to forget him .. because he was bf .. so i accept that hurt he give to me i try to be strong enough for myself .. i let him go from my life. he was nice friend ,good son . but he was bad boyfriend ... he was good at frist few month later he change ...... but the thing is he is not your boyfriend he is going to be your husband soon i think you sud tell him how you felt when he try to ignore you ...explane him ever thing about your feeling and asked him too ... good luck

misspriya....i had same problem like you but i try to forget him .. because he was bf .. so i accept that hurt he give to me i try to be strong enough for myself .. i let him go from my life. he was nice friend ,good son . but he was bad boyfriend ... he was good at frist few month later he change ...... but the thing is he is not your boyfriend he is going to be your husband soon i think you sud tell him how you felt when he try to ignore you ...explane him ever thing about your feeling and asked him too ... good luck

Hoina yo kiskaaa twakka tukka ho raha hai bey!!!

Sab chutiye hai kaa??

" LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ARE LIKE LARGE BOOOBS,
AS TIMES GOES ON, ITS HARDER TO KEEP UP"
CHEERS !!!!

misspriya..i dunno wat i would have done..well i have some ideas right now wat i would have done..but basically when one is in a situation..makin a decision becomes a lot harder hoina?

u say he is changin?but dun we all change as time passes by?u..him..me..others?most of the time we dun noticed our own changing do we? and add to that the long distance and it just gets harder to communicate? even with the technology present..video conferencing etc..there be times where u wont feel the proximity while tryn to communicate?cos we are so dependent on our senses..esp touch(to feel) that well it wont seem real?esp when negativity thots seeps in?

anyways hah before i sound more nonsensical(tryn to make it short so cuttn a lot)..u were askn if there is any way to solve this problem?well if it was maths..i guess some mathematician would have been able to help..but such it is not..hmm a communicatician(haha cant think of the right word right now..but u know wat i mean?) might help?which im not..but yeah as long as u try ur best to explain to him wat ur goin thru..wat u feel..esp about not really being able to communicate with each other..i hope he gets it..and tries a bit harder(esp if the more of communicating problem lies on his side?)well it does take 2 to communicate hoina?

and already engaged re?and gettn married in few mths re?dherai chinta nagara!!is this cold feet before biye?i mean its just a few mths before the "Distant" is removed hoina?unless u all having long distant biye! :o| i think that has been done before?yap the things that are being done in the world today :o| hehe..oh well as the lyrics go "times are gonna change..change or step aside" - rancid....plus esto kura ma ta chinta gareko pani kaam chaina hoina?extra tension matrai dincha :o|

have seen some long distance relationships work out(i reckon its really hard?no?)..plus ur already engaged duh!someone is gettn cold feet?hopefully :oD..but still good luck!:oD


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tory u reminded me of this verse..heard it before?tho its deviating from the topic..

darling i love u...
but somethins come "between" us..
and those new boobs just arent u haha that verse always cracks me up...hope its the same for anyone else who reads it hehe

good day!:oD

i would say build the bridge to that gap.... talk to him... u neva know he might feel the same towards u. build communications let it out.... and dont just make assumtions... so priya.... talk it out... openess in relationship is vital and on top of that understanding...so all the best///

cheers