Well said. Looks like it is one of those cases of where sincere attempts to help gets taken in a wrong way. So screw up. I would not mind if your BF (if you have one indeed who would be looking around for a place to stay) is in real need of a place to stay, comes and lives with me. I have done it in past and made new friends. But now it's pretty obvious that it is merely a display of shemale ego,,or rather saying it in a different way "hey i wont be able to keep my legs closed living with a guy." or may be it is the other way that someone is in desparate hunt for same sex roomies. Anyways forget it.