Ok y....i am curious to know what you really think we girls want ? Share with us....unless you dont know anything. ;)

oopss Ardent

its not...cause eyes never lie....you can lie but not your eyes. ;)
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When did i say eyes lie....LOL....he he he

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by a
monarch of a neighboring Kingdom.
The monarch would have killed him but was moved by
Arthur's youth and ideals.
So the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as
could answer one very difficult question.
Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer, and
if, after a year he did not succeed, he would be
killed.

The question was...What do women really want?

Such a question would perplex even the most
knowledgeable man, and to young Arthur, it seemed an
impossible query.
But, since it was better than death, he accepted the
monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone:
the priests, the princess, the wise men, even the
court jesters.
He spoke to everyone, but no one had a satisfactory
answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for
only she would know the answer.
But the price was high; the old witch was famous
throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she
charged.
The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no
choice but to talk to the witch.
She agreed to answer the question, but he would have
to agree to her price first.

The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot..the most
noble Knight of the round table and Arthur's closest
friend!
Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and
hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made
obscene noises..
he had never encountered such a repugnant creature in
his life.
He REFUSED to force his friend to marry her and endure
such a terrible burden.
But Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with
Arthur.
He said nothing was too big a sacrifice to save his
friend's life.

Hence a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered
Arthur's question thus:

"What a woman really wants, she
answered....................
...... is to be in charge of her own life. "

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch
had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would
be spared.
And so it was..the neighboring monarch granted Arthur
His freedom and Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful
wedding.

The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling
Himself for a horrific experience, entered the
bedroom.
But what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful
woman he had ever seen lay across the bed.
The astounded Lancelot asked, How can this be??

The beauty replied that since he had been kind to her
when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth, be
her horrible deformed self only half the time, and the
beautiful maiden the other half.

Which would he prefer? Beautiful during the day, or
during the
night?

Lancelot pondered the predicament.
During the day, a beautiful woman to show off to his
friends, but in
the privacy of his castle, an old witch?
Or hideous witch during the day and beautiful woman to
share the nights.

What would YOU do???

What Lancelot chose, is below..BUT..make your choice
and read on..




OKAY???




Noble Lancelot..knowing the witches's answer to
Arthur's question, said he would allow HER to make the
choice!!
Upon hearing this, she announced she would be
beautiful all the time for him, because he had
respected her enough to be in charge of her own life.

NOW...The MORAL of this story is????

The moral is..if you don't let a woman have her own
way..things are
going to get ugly!!

applause! applause!! what a brilliant story Tisa...thank you for speaking for all..

as for lancelot and king arther, didn't LANCELOT ELOPED WITH KING ARTHUR'S WIFE EVENTUALLY???HMMMMMMMMMMMM

I guess "some" girls want guys to pay and treat them like hookers.

What is Love?

Two constants
two vowels
two fools.....

First, know who women are and finding out what they want would be easy.

Well, if you must know my dear, the answer lies in our XX chromosomes. I have given a link below, maybe it would be some importance to you.

http://www.nytimes.com/2005/03/20/opinion/20dowd.html?ex=1111554000&en=473111778131bce5&ei=5070

I have posted the article below:


Men are always telling me not to generalize about them.

But a startling new study shows that science is backing me up here.

Research published last week in the journal Nature reveals that women are genetically more complex than scientists ever imagined, while men remain the simple creatures they appear.

"Alas," said one of the authors of the study, the Duke University genome expert Huntington Willard, "genetically speaking, if you've met one man, you've met them all. We are, I hate to say it, predictable. You can't say that about women. Men and women are farther apart than we ever knew. It's not Mars or Venus. It's Mars or Venus, Pluto, Jupiter and who knows what other planets."

Women are not only more different from men than we knew. Women are more different from each other than we knew - creatures of "infinite variety," as Shakespeare wrote.

"We poor men only have 45 chromosomes to do our work with because our 46th is the pathetic Y that has only a few genes which operate below the waist and above the knees," Dr. Willard observed. "In contrast, we now know that women have the full 46 chromosomes that they're getting work from and the 46th is a second X that is working at levels greater than we knew."

Dr. Willard and his co-author, Laura Carrel, a molecular biologist at the Pennsylvania State University College of Medicine, think that their discovery may help explain why the behavior and traits of men and women are so different; they may be hard-wired in the brain, in addition to being hormonal or cultural.

So is Lawrence Summers right after all? "Only time will tell," Dr. Willard laughs.

The researchers learned that a whopping 15 percent - 200 to 300 - of the genes on the second X chromosome in women, thought to be submissive and inert, lolling about on an evolutionary Victorian fainting couch, are active, giving women a significant increase in gene expression over men.

As the Times science reporter Nicholas Wade, who is writing a book about human evolution and genetics, explained it to me: "Women are mosaics, one could even say chimeras, in the sense that they are made up of two different kinds of cell. Whereas men are pure and uncomplicated, being made of just a single kind of cell throughout."

This means men's generalizations about women are correct, too. Women are inscrutable, changeable, crafty, idiosyncratic, a different species.

"Women's chromosomes have more complexity, which men view as unpredictability," said David Page, a molecular biologist and expert on sex evolution at the Whitehead Institute for Biomedical Research in Cambridge, Mass.

Known as Mr. Y, Dr. P calls himself "the defender of the rotting Y chromosome." He's referring to studies showing that the Y chromosome has been shedding genes willy-nilly for millions of years and is now a fraction of the size of its partner, the X chromosome. "The Y married up," he notes. "The X married down."

Size matters, so some experts have suggested that in 10 million years or even much sooner - 100,000 years - men could disappear, taking Maxim magazine, March Madness and cold pizza in the morning with them.

Dr. Page drolly conjures up a picture of the Y chromosome as "a slovenly beast," sitting in his favorite armchair, surrounded by the litter of old fast food takeout boxes.

"The Y wants to maintain himself but doesn't know how," he said. "He's falling apart, like the guy who can't manage to get a doctor's appointment or can't clean up the house or apartment unless his wife does it.

"I prefer to think of the Y as persevering and noble, not as the Rodney Dangerfield of the human genome."

Dr. Page says the Y - a refuge throughout evolution for any gene that is good for males and/or bad for females - has become "a mirror, a metaphor, a blank slate on which you can write anything you want to think about males." It has inspired cartoon gene maps that show the belching gene, the inability-to-remember-birthdays-and-anniversaries gene, the fascination-with-spiders-and-reptiles gene, the selective-hearing-loss-"Huh" gene, the inability-to-express-affection-on-the-phone gene.

The discovery about women's superior gene expression may answer the age-old question about why men have trouble expressing themselves: because their genes do.

If you ask me...I would say they don't even know what they wants. It's unsolved mystery and its better if you leave it that way. Plus they changes their mind all the time. So let them figure out what they want. If they don't know what they want...so how could any guy would know it. :)..just a thought

Girls want a man they can respect and a man who loves them. They want a man with enough money to support a family, so he has to at least have a car when they start dating and some extra spending money to go on dates. They want a guy is is attractive and in good health and good shape.
They want a guy who will be a good father to their kids as well. They want a good upstanding moral citizen who she can honor.

The problem with girls:

If u TREAT her nicely, she says u are IN LOVE with her;

If u Don't, she says u are PROUD.

If u DRESS Nicely, she says u are trying to LURE her;

If u Don't, she says u are PAKHE.

If u ARGUE with her, she says u are STUBBORN;

If u keep QUIET,! she says u have no BRAINS.

If u are SMARTER than her, she'll lose FACE;

If she's Smarter than u, she is GREAT.

If u don't Love her, she tries to POSSESS u;

If u Love her, she will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)

If u don't make love with her., she says! u don't Love her;

If u do!! she says u are CHEAP.

If u tell her your PROBLEM, she says u are TROUBLESOME;

If u don't, she says that u don't TRUST her.

If u SCOLD her, u are like a CHACHA to her;

If she SCOLDS u, it is because she CARES for u.

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;

If she BREAKS hers, she is FORCED to do so.

If u SMOKE, u are BAD BOY;

If she SMOKES, she is a GENTLELADY.

If u do WELL in your exams, she says it's LUCK;

If she does WELL, it's BRAINS.

If u HURT her, u are CRUEL;

If she HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!

& sooo hard to please!!!!!





If u send this to girls, they will swear that it's not true.......

but if u don't, they say u are selfish.....

The moral of the story is.......SEND THIS TO GIRLS OUT THERE ANYWAY...
Send it to boys also, gives them some laughter ...

(GOT THIS IN ONE OF MY AGE OLD MAIL BOX. COPIED AND PASTED)

if you start analyzing like this she'll say you're desperate.........damn......girls boyrz..girls boyz and them boys and them girls.......ooooooooooffffff

no way......i don't fit into any brackets..you make it sound like we're sadist..born to torture guys..hahhahaa..sounds nice though..well well..now that you have mentioned all the things...I might as well use them as tips next time...hahahhaa thanks newuser...you're a pet

Hey hush.(----you are a pet). Did you dare to sulk me? I have heard enough of your smartness in sajha. But mind you, you weigh lot less in my scale of judgement. I don't want to berate you. Have fun.

I dont know what girls want but i surely know what i want and dont want. lol.

Ram Ram Ram Ram....More than 84 posts ...viewed more than 2300 times huda pani still the discussion is going on what girls really want re....Ke sunna maan lageko hola...aba ta lesson learn garnu paryo ne ho....it is never ending!!! ...he he he

i dont really care bout wt they want but then i think i still know some of da points..neways here it goes...
1. they jus want someone who run after them "kta haru lai kathaputali banaunaa khojneii"
2. they think playin us boys is aight but when they get played ani "mahabharat" suru hunchaa....
neways much more but thas for now..

Looks like sajha ma aaune haru sabai puranai kura matra kottyera baschan . Kolle taaneko yaar yo purano thread, Dheyet. This threat was interesting but now its irritating, discussing about the same "what girls really want" Girls boys, i dunno, but human being as whole wants good and secured life. Not only human beings but all living beings. No matter its girls or boys human can and will do any possible thing to make their life good and secure. no one can blame one or the other to be betrayer or player or any thing like that, but the reality is, human want good and secured life with love and affection.
Sex is a part of love not vice versa. The one who understands this is more happy (emotionally) than the others and are more stable with their life. They have more understanding between each other. They know where they are heading. All living being wants sex, neither boys nor girls are far away from this desire. So, don't analyse each other.


Kati yeutai topic ma discussion garne yaar??????????????

Just go in front of the gal you loved....look into her eyes....and say with open heart, "I Love You"....without thinking of consequences thereafter....Then it is 100% sure that You really loved her!!!.....n not that you probably love her.........he he he
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Ardent - I do that all the time but the girls think I am jokin` and laughs at me. And I can't stop either and start laughin` so goes back to sqare 1 - as she starts to say you liar...lol

He he he he ..Sanjyas ...May be ur style of saying were not so much expressive or u were unlucky....he he he....i mention that coz. it was what i did and won the heart of my someone special...although it was two way traffic in my case !!!! ....

Why r gals I like always taken damn it...hehhe

sanjay... try some rejected gals...

if it will work then.... learn from experience.. and look for others too.. hehehehe.. and keep on learning.. until you think you learnt ur lesson.. hehehehehe

moral of the story.... try try try until you are tired.. hehehehe

just for fun hai!! sanjay!!

heheheheeh